Be good. Be quiet. Be helpful.
Smile. Achieve. Don’t feel too much.
Stay small, stay sweet, stay busy.
You lived that script.
And it nearly swallowed you.
And let’s be real — that script didn’t come from nowhere. We’re mothering inside systems that were never built for softness, truth, or real connection.
But not anymore. You’ve been shedding the pressure, softening the perfectionism, and finally learning to trust yourself — and rest, for once, without guilt.
And now?
You’re looking at your daughter thinking:
Oh no. She’s not doing this to herself too. Not on my watch.
You want her to grow up knowing she’s worthy without proving anything.
That she doesn’t have to hustle to be lovable.
That she can be bold and tender and complicated and still be good.
But also… can we be honest for a sec?
She already is bold.
She’s a walking boundary.
A tiny truth-teller.
Equal parts heart-melting and holy hell.
You're trying to raise a girl who knows her worth —
while also negotiating bedtime with a tiny CEO in unicorn pajamas.
And honestly? You’re doing amazing.
This guide is just here to help you do it with a little more clarity,
a little less self-doubt,
and way fewer generational expectations whispering in your ear — or cultural ones shouting from every corner.
This isn’t about raising perfect kids. Or being a perfect parent.
This is about healing alongside your daughter so she grows up feeling safe in who she is… because she watched you do the same.
I created this because I was tired of wondering if I was “messing them up.” Tired of the guilt, the pressure, and the Pinterest-y parenting advice that just made me feel worse.
When I started unlearning all the expectations that had shaped me, I realized I didn’t want my daughters to have to recover from their childhood — or from a culture that teaches them to disconnect from who they are.
This guide is the start of a different story. Not a perfect one. But a true one — written together, day by day.
If you want to raise girls who trust themselves,
you have to keep trusting yourself too.
Join the waitlist to get first access when Breaking The Cycle launches —
plus an early bird discount just for waitlisters.
This isn’t just about changing their future. It’s about healing yours — and choosing a new path in a world that desperately needs one.
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Let this be the moment you both stop trying to earn your enoughness.